Día de Muertos is one of the most special and beautiful traditions of Mexican culture. Our senses vibrate with incredible colors that fill the atmosphere with joy. The scent of copal and marigold flowers transport us to a magical world. The sugar grains of pan de muerto, accented with anise and orange, are a feast for our palate. But the most significant aspect of all is its meaning: instead of mourning our loved ones who have passed, we celebrate them because they will always be with us.
There are many reasons to celebrate this day with your little one. First, to help them connect with their roots, learn about their ancestors and discover more about their family history. This will aid them in building their own identity and give them a sense of belonging. Additionally, there are many fun activities to spark their creativity and imagination.
How to Explain Día de Muertos
Start by telling them that it is a very ancient celebration (it has its origins in pre-Hispanic times), aimed at commemorating the loved ones who are no longer with us. Explain in simple language that it is believed that on this date, souls return to the world of the living, and we honor their memory with love and joy because they will always live in our hearts as long as we remember them.
Set Up a Family Altar
There are altars of many sizes and styles. The essential elements include a photo of the people you want to honor, marigold flowers and candles that will guide the souls and illuminate their path, colorful papel picado, sugar skulls, a glass of water and their favorite food because they will arrive hungry from their journey from the beyond. You can also place personal items or elements that remind you of them. Some people burn incense or copal because it is believed to help purify the home and prepare it for their arrival. Seize the moment of setting up the altar to share the stories we remember about these loved ones. Even if your little one didn’t know them, it’s essential for them to understand that they are also a part of their life.
Stories and Legends
In Mexican culture, there are many stories and legends related to the afterlife. Take this opportunity to share some that are appropriate for their age. For example, “La Catrina” or “The Legend of the Marigold,” which are suitable for all ages. Avoid telling them stories that instill fear, so they do not associate this celebration with something negative, but rather with an opportunity to discuss profound topics such as transcendence, love and death from a positive perspective, as a natural part of the cycle of life. There are also incredible movies worth watching during this time, such as “Coco” or “The Book of Life,” which convey messages of love and family connection.
Events and Performances
Throughout the country, various activities related to this celebration take place, such as Día de Muertos parades, as well as displays of Catrinas and alebrijes. There are also food festivals featuring different versions of pan de muerto, chocolate, and other dishes inspired by this tradition. Some museums offer relevant exhibitions or set up mega altars that are definitely worth visiting. Another option includes concerts, theater performances, and even tours, such as the famous Night of Legends in Xochimilco.
Día de Muertos is a wonderful opportunity to celebrate life and spend a heartfelt moment together, filled with joy, reflection and love. In addition to learning more about our roots, you will be creating special memories that will be etched in them forever.
